Coaching

You may have just had that moment.

I know what it feels like.

Choose your path

1-on-1

1-On-1 coaching for women

You discovered your husband's porn use. The shock, the rage, the shame—and the question you can't stop asking: is this my fault? It isn't. And you don't have to figure out what comes next alone.

Working together, you'll heal from betrayal without needing him to move first. The spiral of self-blame, body shame, and intrusive thoughts slows and stops. You'll rebuild your sense of self, trust, and direction. And you'll start deciding what your future looks like on your own terms.

*30 minutes. No obligation. Just an honest conversation

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Couples

Couples recovery coaching

You want to try. You're not sure he does. Or maybe you both do, but every conversation ends the same way. Dave and Kirsten rebuilt their marriage after 25 years of secrets. They know this ground.

Heal from betraying and from being betrayed. You do this by breaking the cycle of exposure, shame, promises, and relapse. Together you'll rebuild trust with honest accountability. You'll learn to communicate without exploding or shutting down. And create a new marriage on the other side.

*45 minutes. Both of you together.

Book a Free Couples Session

Premarital

Premarital coaching

You love each other, and you're excited. But some conversations haven't happened yet. The couples who struggle most are the ones who assumed it would all just work out.

Have the conversations most couples avoid until it's too late. You will learn how to fight well and repair quickly. And, build agreements around money, boundaries, and roles before resentment sets in. Enter marriage with a plan, not just a hope.

45 minutes. Start the conversation now.

Book a Free Pre-Marital Session

Coaching vs Counseling: What's the difference?

Coaching

  • Future-focused. Where are you going?
  • Practical tools and accountability
  • Solution-oriented next steps Flexible schedule, non-clinical
  • You choose the pace

Counseling / Therapy

  • Past-focused. What happened and why?
  • Deep exploration of root causes
  • Mental health diagnosis possible
  • Longer time horizon Formal, clinical setting

Many women do both, and that's the strongest path. What surfaces in counseling gets turned into real forward motion in coaching.

Not sure which option fits?

Book the free session anyway. You'll know by the end of the call.

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What women are saying

Kirsten is a beautiful, safe but call it like it is soul. I love our sessions and that I have assignments to do before my next session. She is respectful of out […]

- S

Kirsten, I received your book 2 days ago and I'm nearly done already. Thank you, thank you. I also want to thank your husband. Though this is still very raw, I feel […]

- C

Kirsten doesn’t back down or shy away from hard things but has taught me by example how to face my problems and fears head-on.

- R

Kirsten is good at being real. She has a way of cutting through the clutter. Kirsten delivers.

- C

Kirsten is an excellent listener and makes me always feel very safe and comfortable in a conversation. She offers straight advice about hard topics, and doesn’t shy away from difficult subjects or […]

- K

Kirsten offers the greatest blend of compassion and truth and helps you focus on the deeper issues preventing you from moving forward in your healing process. I was so grateful to have […]

- M

Thank you for the time I spent with you. It really helped me to move forward. We are doing much better. Most of all, I am free most of the time. The […]

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