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At some point, we all face our worst fears.

Sometimes what you fear isn’t what you have to face.
And sometimes what you face was never one of your fears.

But here you are. There I was.

I have been to the bottom. And then, the bottom of the bottom.

My husband’s hidden addiction was the beginning of my life unraveling.
But it was only the beginning.
It uncovered depression and addiction in my own life.
Which led to never-better healing. (That’s the short version.)

When my husband told me they’d discovered him using pornography at his job and he might be fired, my carefully crafted world shattered. 

Choosing to get up from the depths of despair (more than once) and confront my husband’s sin and mine changed our marriage and our lives.

I was not just rebuilt—painful parts haphazardly pasted back together.
I was remade. Better. Stronger. 

You can be too. You don’t have to believe it, yet. We’ll get there.
A proven process with support and the jaw-dropping-awesomeness of God, changes your life. The life you can’t imagine right now. A better life awaits you.

There is no depression too deep, no addiction too strong, and no pattern too ingrained for our compassionate Father’s immeasurable power.

You can feel different. I can help.

As a coach, author, and speaker, I understand first-hand the shock and pain of discovering your spouse’s porn use. Passionately pointing others to God’s redeeming grace, I empower women to heal their broken hearts, regain their confidence, and create a healthy path forward. A survivor of clinical depression and PTSD, I choose a life of authenticity, love, faith, fun, and forgiveness. 

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