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No Holding Back

Dave and I discuss his addiction to pornography and what we did next.

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June 28, 2024

What Sitcoms Teach Us About Honest Communication In Marriage

Why do well-written sitcoms make us laugh? Shows like Seinfeld, Everybody Loves Raymond, and Home Improvement exaggerate real-life…
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June 19, 2024

5 Ways You Feel Safe In Your Relationship: Post-Betrayal Healing

Can you ever feel safe again? When you discover your partner’s struggle with porn, you lose your sense…
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June 12, 2024

Deconstructing the Lie: “What’s Wrong With Me?”

Janet* sobbed. Overwhelmed by fear, pain, remorse, and inadequacy, she choked on her next words, “What’s wrong with…

Kirsten is an excellent listener and makes me always feel very safe and
comfortable in a conversation. She offers straight advice about hard topics, and
doesn’t shy away from difficult subjects or problems in life. Kirsten is great at
helping others to identify what needs to change in their lives and intentionally
walking with them thru the process.


Kirsten is good at being real.
She has a way of cutting through the clutter. Kirsten delivers.


Kirsten doesn’t back down or shy away from hard things, but has taught me by
example how to face my problems and fears head on.