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Did you just discover his porn use?

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No Holding Back

Dave and I discuss his addiction to pornography and what we did next.

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Kirsten is an excellent listener and makes me always feel very safe and
comfortable in a conversation. She offers straight advice about hard topics, and
doesn’t shy away from difficult subjects or problems in life. Kirsten is great at
helping others to identify what needs to change in their lives and intentionally
walking with them thru the process.


Kirsten is good at being real. She has a way of cutting through the clutter. Kirsten


Kirsten doesn’t back down or shy away from hard things, but has taught me by
example how to face my problems and fears head on.